I have no real favorite color. I like pretty much everything. But lately, I’ve been feeling pink. A lot.

Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I live with 4 boys and being the only girl (or in this house, glirl).

Just bought a new pink & black camera strap. Goes well with my pink raincoat, right? Which matches the pink Kindle and my pink phone. And this is the next pink thing on the list:

Off to Timmy’s school today to be Shabbat mom, and then to Jack & Patrick’s school cause it’s a half day. A playdate here with friends. John is supposed to be going to the Mets v. Red Sox tonight at CitiField (but the rain/wind will hopefully stop by then).

Saturday’s another busy day with a wedding meeting, the boys going to the Mets and a 40th birthday party for a High School friend. So excited for the party to see old friends and listen/dance to some awesome 80’s music!! Hmmm….Pretty in Pink???

So yesterday’s April Fools Day switch was a success! After much discussion the night before about the order of things in the classroom, where to hang your stuff, where to sit…they did it! They totally tricked their teachers.

They were doing the morning work when Patrick (posing as Jack) raised his hand to say he was missing a page. The teacher asked him if he was getting a cold cause his voice sounded funny! The teachers both eventually figured it out and were very surprised. In fact, Patrick’s teacher didn’t even realize it until Jack’s teacher came in and told her! The teachers both decided to keep the “wrong” kid in their class for the whole day. Too funny!!

I do have to mention that even I had a few moments there that I had to really look and see who I was talking too. It’s very confusing when they aren’t wearing their usual clothes/colors.

The boys both had a great time being eachother for the day and are planning on doing it again next April Fools in 5th grade. Sometimes, it’s good to be twins.

And since a post is blah with no picture (and since the boys are back to avoiding the camera since the fun is over), here’s a few of Timmy on a pj day.

The two don’t really go together, I know. But when there is a lot of the first (and there has been this week), a lot of the second seems to really help.

Found out yesterday that a friend of mine from high school died, leaving a girlfriend and a little girl, plus the rest of his family and friends. His name was John and he was 38 years old. A total shame.

We were close back in the day (we even dated for a few months before I left for college). We only reconnected within the last few months on facebook but had been ‘talking’ on there just last week. And now he’s gone.

The only comfort I’m finding in this very f’ed up situation is that I know he and our friend Justin have found eachother again. Justin was our very good friend and committed suicide back in 1987 and John really helped hold everyone together in the aftermath.

There is a facebook page “friends of John Crapo” that you can check out if you are so inclined.

He was a really good guy. I will miss him.  And this is how I will remember him. (and whenever I hear any songs from the movie “Lost Boys” I will always remember John. That was so our movie!)

Going clockwise: 1. My favorite picture of John in my room, 2. wearing my sharkskin jacket (it looked better on him anyway), 3. yes, that’s me with all my big 80’s hair. a little smooch, 4. John on my rx-7. He and Justin used to steal my keys and move my car to a different parking spot during school, 5. John and Justin at the commons, 6. John, Chris Blasi, Karen Cohen, and Dayna Klein hanging at my house, 7. my bed, 8. awesome black hat.

John (my John) also lost a friend this week. Matt Murray from the fire department died. Matt was a fantastic man, loved by everyone. He was always so nice and genuine and gave 69 years to the RVC FD. He was almost 90 years old and was active and busy until the end. He too will be sorely missed.

And if that’s not enough, Timmy’s preschool teacher Miss Donna lost her mom this week. Sending thoughts of love and support to her family as well.

That’s really too much already.

Today is April Fools Day and even though I’m not feeling particularly foolish due in great measure to all of the above bad news, you gotta have some laughs too. Get the balance right.

So, Jack and Patrick decided that they wanted to switch for the day and be…well, eachother! They are dressed as eachother (down to the sneakers), took eachothers backpacks and lunchboxes and are going into the wrong classrooms. The principal of their school gave her okay. The teachers don’t know though. I can’t wait to hear for how long they were able to pull it off. They did it last year too and really were so excited to try it again this year.

Timmy kept laughing and laughing this morning…and saying “Jack is Patrick!! Patrick is Jack!” And what that kid laughs, it’s impossible not to. Good. Cause I needed it.