• children & families

    teachers sessions: the alt family & the pas family

    Both these wonderful ladies are teachers over at Jack and Patrick’s school (soon to be Timmy’s too). Jack had mrs. pas in 2nd grade and we just adored her. We were never lucky enough to get mrs. alt but there’s always the chance with Timmy. Mrs. Alt’s daughter is in Timmy’s preschool class which is also nice so I am getting to know her that way.

    I think all the teachers kids from the school are required to be good looking or something. Cause they are REALLY are.

    First the alt family. Isn’t she stunning?? She’s a tiny little thing but packed with personality.

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    Next the pas family. The little boy didn’t really want too much to do with me, but he came around in the end. But as good looking as he is- that’s how fast the kid is. Zip. Zip. Zipzipzip. All over. And even though his eyes are teary, I promise I didn’t make him cry- he’s just coming off a cold and was leaky all over his little face.

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    The alt family gallery http://bsquaredphotography.smugmug.com/gallery/7557897_ebhvY/1/488367387_TKPPv

  • personal,  travel

    a homecoming & out trip out east

    John’s home! They kicked him out today. It was a crazy morning- phone calls to the doctor from me cause I didn’t think he was ready to be released. Why? Because he had a fever yesterday (which is now gone) and because they never tried him out on the steps. You can’t get into our house from outside without going up some steps. Well, after a loooong morning, they finally did and he did fine. So now he’s home. He seems so, so much better and he even said that he feels in even less pain than before the surgery. So that’s pretty huge. He’s starting to get feeling back in his leg/foot that had been gone because of the nerve impingement by the disc. He took a fat nap all afternoon. The boys have all been great about being careful around Daddy as not to bump or bug him.

    A big, huge, giant thanks to Mr. Incredible himself, our friend George who went into the city to pick John up. Timmy had an orthopedist appt that I couldn’t reschedule and I was nervous about who could physically help John should the need arise. George, you are truly Mr. Incredible. And other important thank you’s for today…to Kevin (John’s "work wife") for making sure that John was advocating for himself and that he was really actually okay to come home. To my friend Sue and her husband John for the delicious dinners for the upcoming days- any time I don’t have to cook is a good thing. Really good. To my mother in law for the venting ear, offers of and actual help, and the dinner that we will have tommorrow night. And to all my friends who called to make sure I’m okay. I’m okay. Pretty much. This is all just exhausting.

    Ok, and now stay tuned for some scenes from our trip out east over Columbus Day weekend. There are SO MANY awesome pictures so I put them all in an album on the left if you want to see them. The lighting was so beautiful all weekend and I got some amazing shots. Some of my favorites below.

    First we went to the park across the street from the ‘easthouse’. Working on my panning skills while the boys were whirling around on the merry-go-round. Delish light shining thru the tree (and the boys actually made it up into the tree!!). And just some goofiness at the park.

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    Next day was the trip to Greenport- on the agenda: the duck store, the Coronet for lunch and the best chocolate milk shakes. Ever., the carousel, and the Horton lighthouse on the way back including the zillion stairs down to the beach. We even climbed all the way to the top of the lighthouse. John was not particularly happy about that.

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    Then later that day, a new ‘event’ that I think will be on the schedule every year as it was John and mine favorite part! We went to Duck Walk Vineyard and just sat around the ‘yard’, drinking wine, eating cheese and crakers, and watching the boys play. Of course, the lighting was fantabulous and I took a zillion pictures there. Timmy does "cheers" with Daddy even. We didn’t want to leave but it was getting cold once the sun went down.

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    Last day, the pumpkin patch (tried a new one this year. it was good.) and the pie farm to pick up some yummy fruit and pies. Tried the corn maze-John got tired of walking around so he stopped in one place and sent one boy one way and the other boy the other way to find the exit. Jack made it out and went back to collect Daddy and his brother. Timmy loved the bouncy pumpkin. And this was the first year that I couldn’t take my customary boys in the wheelbarrow sitting on pumpkins picture. The big boys are too big. 🙁 So we did the best we could to fake it. And couldn’t leave out mr. happy with his wheelbarrow o pumpkins (for $80).

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    It was a great weekend. A nice way to spend our last pre-surgery time together. 

  • children & families

    drowning & the doy family

    Think I’m drowning just a little. In over my head. But plugging along cause that’s just how it is.

    John is doing a little better today- or rather he was until later in the night. He was able to get out of bed himself and do a little more walking today (still with the walker though) but had a lot of pain again tonight which was due in part to the fact that the nurse was 2hrs late with his pain meds. And he now also has a lowgrade fever and they don’t know why. His surgeon had said he may come home tommorrow but I just don’t see how thats going to work. 1. he has a fever. 2. he can’t really get around by himself and god knows I can’t lift him! So I’m not sure what’s going to happen. His surgeon hasn’t seen him since Friday but he’s supposed to see him in the morning. I’ll keep you posted.

    And now, the doy family. This is my second year doing pictures for this family and the big boys were even less happy about me being there than they were last year- but they do take a great picture!! The baby grew up so much and the little girl is just as adorable and photogenic as ever. Had some fun running around at Tanglewood and taking some pictures to get something for their holiday card. Hope we succeded, D.

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  • children & families

    the arle family

    (Looks like I am having to resort to using 4 letters for the last name- too many shoots with too alike names!)

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    LOVED doing this shoot. Mom and I discussed locations beforehand and it was between these alleys back behind the childrens museum and the Planting Fields. While Planting Fields is beautiful and everything, it dosen’t scream boy to me. This place is all boy. This is the same location where I did the shoot for the Turn a few months back and I liked it so much I recently brought my boys there for a few pictures.

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    Anyway, we had a great time and the boys were so happy with all the stuff there (especially after I "let" them do the jumping pictures they wanted. I think the jumping was their favorite part of last year’s shoot!) Mom is always a more than willing subject (so you know I love her) and Dad is a very good sport, going along with whatever crazy ideas we come up with.

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    And when I saw the shopping cart, mom and I came up with the same idea at the same time. Awesomeness!

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  • children & families,  personal

    the basi family, the mcgu family & a john update

    Ok, trying hard to get back into the swing of things today. It’s only half working out. I am so tired and spent that after getting the boys all off to school today, I went back to bed for a 2hr nap. It was nice but I still feel like a wrung out washcloth (and looking in the mirror, I look pretty much the same).

    First, a John update. I was at the hospital til after 10pm last night (the staff is very nice and even though visiting hours are over at 8pm, they let me stay) until they got John out of recovery and into the step down unit. He was in a TON of pain last night and was pushing on his morphine drip button like…well, like he just had holes drilled in his spine and titanium screws and rods put in. His breathing wasn’t great but that is due to his throat being dry and swollen from being under and intubated for almost 5 hrs for the surgery, plus the fact that the morphine’s side effect is a depression of respiration. But he made it thru the night. I spoke to him this morning and he sounded way drugged up and still in a lot of pain. As of this afternoon (after another phone call) he was still in stepdown but they planned on moving him to his own room today at some point- you know how quickly things work in hospitals! They took away his morphine pump (perhaps from overuse?) and he sounds just as drugged on whatever kinds of pills they are popping into him. The boys asked me if I would stay home today (so I did), so John’s parents were heading into Manhattan to sit with him today. A big thank you again to Kevin for driving all the way in just to visit at the hospital, and to Nelson for visiting and driving home with me and being a good friend. And thanks to everyone who called, texted, and emailed to check on John and on me. You guys are great!  I’ll post tommorrow with another update on Mr. Happy. I can’t wait to go to sleep again- I feel like I’m never going to catch up on sleep.

    Next, two families who’s kids go to school with the big boys and are repeat clients, not to mention friends. It was nice that it worked out that one was right after the next over at Tanglewood. We got some great and fun shots of each family.

    The Basi family- I love the towhead kids. They are like a magazine ad, no?

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    The mcgu family- their boys are so different from eachother, but so alike in not wanting to smile for me. Toward the end I managed to get them to smile a bit against their wishes! The older the boys get, the harder it is to coax out those smiles!

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